Virtual Learning Tips for Parents
Who knew that COVID-19 would be just as widespread now as it was a few months back? It was supposed to last a few weeks; it was supposed to be over by now; students were supposed to back in school back to normal. Well, things aren’t like we expected and with schools returning for the 2020-2021 school year, many families are opting for virtual learning versus the traditional brick-and-mortar. So how can you, the parent and child, thrive in the virtual setting? I know, I know, it is not your favorite option, but since things are the way they are, I hope these tips make you and your child’s virtual learning experience run smoothly. We’ve all tried it a few months back and that was the first rodeo, so now, let’s try our best to be successful at it right now with these few tips!
Create a schedule and stick to it Students need structure. This includes having a set bed time and wake-up time too. Your overall schedule needs to be based off their class schedules so learning the teacher’s day to day, week to week is imperative. Many teachers will be “going live” or holding sessions and expect students to be present. Plan accordingly. Keep in mind to schedule in a lunch time, snack time, and recess. Setting a routine will help your child function better. The better your routine is at the beginning, the easier it will be in the future. Note: Have your child get dressed. No pajamas. Brush teeth, wash face, comb hair, etc. The student needs to feel like they are in school. Doing this will change their mindset.
Take time to familiarize yourself with the learning platforms This can be difficult but it’s attainable. Take some time out of your day to explore what students are using so you will at least have some general knowledge of how to maneuver. Schools may use some platforms such as Zoom, Edgenuity, Google Classroom, Schoology, etc. Many platforms have a parent portal component- Ask the teacher. The parent view may be easier to follow/understand. Remember, the more work you do on the front end, the smoother it will be along the way. Note: Figure out the school’s digital grade book platform. This is how you see your child’s grades and know their progress. If there is an app, download it. Seek help on how to become familiar with it. Many platforms, such as Infinite Campus, already have videos and directions. This will eliminate not knowing how your child is doing academically.
Contact your child's teacher when needed You are so welcome to do this and don’t shy away from it! Teachers know you have concerns. Have a direct line of communication to ask questions or get clarification about work, directions, expectations, etc. Being proactive is key. Your child’s teacher may offer scheduled times where you can conference. Inquire and have them set it up.
Will the teacher hold small group sessions during the week?
What time does class (live) start? What are the expectations? Do students have to attend the live, or will the teacher record sessions that is accessible for students and that will suffice?
How will students submit work? By email or an online learning platform?
Create a learning space free from distractions The bedroom is not the best place to set up a space; the bed can be so tempting! The space should be clutter-free, comfortable, and free from distractions. I’m a window person but if you live on a busy street, sitting your child by the window may not be the best place. I would recommend you convert the kitchen table to a learning space; put a few posters on the wall (Dollar Tree usually has easy to find, affordable school paraphernalia that you can hang to spruce up their learning enviornment). Keep all materials such as pencil/pen, paper handy. I recommend investing in earbuds, or headphones.
Note: Depending on your child’s motivation and age group, you may want them in an open space versus a closed room such as an extra office/room. This way, you can keep an eye on them. Either way, keep checking on them.
Attend any virtual parent help sessions/open houses, PTA meetings offered by the school/district This is the best way to be “in the know”. Find out when they are and keep it in your calendar. Write down all questions and ask them. Keep in mind that many of these will be done virtually.
You have the supporting role Your child has a teacher already, so don’t feel as if you have to carry that load; however, you are the support. The same way you would be involved for “regular” school, stay involved, just turn it up a notch.
Social distance but keep in touch In person contact may not be the best choice right now, but allow your child to continue the interaction with their friends. Video chats, texting, messaging, etc. If you know any other parents from the school, coordinate a time during breaks where students can chat. If students are in similar classes, they could even work on assignments together, virtually.
Reward them Yes, students should be doing what they are supposed to do, but a little praise can go a long way. If they are trying, if they are doing a good job, even if they are struggling, find a positive and hone in on it. Pizza parties during lunch, extra screen time on the video game, or simple recognition is always welcomed.
Create daily/weekly checklist for assignments Students may have an assignment to submit every week. You or your child can check them off as they complete and submit it. Use this. Additionally, you may want to keep a behavior log for incentives. Fill it in your agreed upon expectations and fill in the bubbles as they achieve the goal. Use this. The end of week goal is that all bubbles are shaded. Post it so you can track it and reward!
Breathe and keep it positive Things can seem difficult but your attitude towards virtual learning will rub off on your child whether good or bad. Make the best of it and leave any negativity behind. For example, If you don’t understand the teacher’s format, refrain from blurting out things such as “this doesn’t make sense” (I’m guilty!) rather reach out to the teacher to get a better understanding.
We are in this together! Leave your questions and comments below. My desire is that this is a smooth transition for you.
I hope these few words find you well!
Dr. E